沵给的若即若离的温柔沵给的忽冷忽热的关怀
[mĭ jĭ de ruò jí ruò lí de wēn róu mĭ jĭ de hū lĕng hū rè de guān huái]
You give lukewarm tenderness and intermittent care. Implies inconsistent kindness or attention received from someone - neither fully distant nor completely close, leading to confusion and uncertainty in emotions.