离开不挽留挽留不离开
[lí kāi bù wăn liú wăn liú bù lí kāi]
This phrase expresses the paradoxical nature of certain interpersonal relationships. The phrase can be understood as leaving without any need to hold on or staying if one insists on holding on. The username suggests that the owner has some ambivalent or unresolved feelings regarding separation and staying. The feeling conveys either a nonchalant attitude or indecisiveness in relationships.