冷言冷语冷温柔暖言暖语暖心灵
[lĕng yán lĕng yŭ lĕng wēn róu nuăn yán nuăn yŭ nuăn xīn líng]
Breaking this down: 冷言冷语 (cold words) + 冷温柔 (cold warmth) versus 暖言暖语 (warm words) + 暖心灵 (warming heart). It describes experiencing both warm and cold receptions, actions, and attitudes in relationships, leading to a touching yet somewhat conflicting feeling in heart.