冷到心里暖不了你
[lĕng dào xīn lĭ nuăn bù le nĭ]
Meaning cold outside warm inside, often metaphorical for a cool - looking person whose inner self craves intimacy but finds difficulty conveying warmth. In another interpretation, even though you treat others kindly, they may not respond positively which results in disappointment. Both suggest the pain of misunderstanding, and one - sided love, emphasizing the gap between external appearance versus genuine emotion deep down in their heart.