劳资不霸气但是你老公老娘不温柔但是你老婆
[láo zī bù bà qì dàn shì nĭ lăo gōng lăo niáng bù wēn róu dàn shì nĭ lăo pó]
'I am not overbearing but I’m your husband/I am not gentle but I’m your wife'. This netizen chooses to use provocative and slightly offensive slang. It demonstrates defiance, a refusal to conform, while asserting dominance in relationships, challenging conventional roles and expectations between genders or lovers.