拉扯与你拉拉扯扯
[lā chĕ yŭ nĭ lā lā chĕ chĕ]
It describes a tangled or convoluted relationship with lots of back-and-forth, akin to a tussle or playful interaction. Reflecting on a dynamic where there's constant push and pull, this term evokes ongoing, possibly conflicting interactions with another.