渴望无坚不摧却偏偏柔情似水
[kĕ wàng wú jiān bù cuī què piān piān róu qíng sì shuĭ]
Expresses inner contradiction and struggle. On one hand, yearning for strong character to overcome all obstacles. But in practice demonstrating tenderness and affectionate feelings which appear to oppose hardness at the same time.