姐姐不是拽姐姐很和蔼
[jiĕ jiĕ bù shì zhuài jiĕ jiĕ hĕn hé ăi]
This nickname implies that the user is a kind and friendly older sister rather than an aloof or arrogant one. It reflects the contrast between expectations of someone’s attitude (aloofness or sternness) versus the reality (gentleness).