娇媚柔情似水是她不是我
[jiāo mèi róu qíng sì shuĭ shì tā bù shì wŏ]
The soft tenderness like water is her, not me. By saying it's the others instead of 'I', the user might want to highlight or envy another person's characteristics of being gentle and affectionate, indicating the contrast to one's own self.