给我一颗糖扇我三巴掌
[jĭ wŏ yī kē táng shàn wŏ sān bā zhăng]
In Chinese culture, parents used to reward children with candy as encouragement and sometimes punish them with physical actions when necessary. The term humorously means 'you give me a lollipop in return of beating me three times.' In modern society, it often refers to mixed good and bad emotions, usually towards complicated relationships or affairs.