何必自作多情自欺欺人
[hé bì zì zuò duō qíng zì qī qī rén]
'Why should one unnecessarily fall in love and deceive oneself?' This netname reflects a person’s realistic view or cynicism, pointing out it is futile to get overly optimistic, self-indulgent in emotions like infatuation as it can lead to self-deception.