怪我没有长成你喜欢的模样
[guài wŏ méi yŏu zhăng chéng nĭ xĭ huān de mó yàng]
The user may have unmet expectations in some way regarding another person’s desires, especially those concerning appearance or personality, making this translate into something along the lines of: Blame me for not growing up in the way you expected. The expression may carry sadness or regret as they were unable to meet someone's ideal standard, and possibly blame oneself for the differences.