个吊儿郎当的苦逼男个蛮不讲理的腹黑女
[gè diào ér láng dāng de kŭ bī nán gè mán bù jiăng lĭ de fù hēi nǚ]
A casual and playful way to self-describe as an irresponsible and somewhat miserable man along with an unreasonable and manipulative woman. It implies an ironic or exaggerated self-mockery on one’s character.