敷衍到最后成了累赘思念到最后成了犯贱
[fū yăn dào zuì hòu chéng le lĕi zhuì sī niàn dào zuì hòu chéng le fàn jiàn]
It can be translated as 'Indifference ultimately leads to becoming a burden; longings ultimately degrade'. A statement showing dissatisfaction with casualness towards relationships, believing it can turn into a liability; also expresses longing deeply could be seen as undignified.