风情万种不是骚能言善变不是刁
[fēng qíng wàn zhŏng bù shì sāo néng yán shàn biàn bù shì diāo]
This implies that being charming ('full of allure') doesn't equate to being frivolous, and talking skillfully ('well-spoken') is not the same as manipulative. Essentially advocating for seeing beyond superficial labels to the richness of a person’s character.