得到的时候在毁失去的时候在悔
[dé dào de shí hòu zài huĭ shī qù de shí hòu zài huĭ]
'Destroying while acquiring, regretting once losing.' This net name indicates a paradox that one destroys what he/she obtains, then realizes regret upon its loss. Perhaps reflecting on impulsive or rash behaviors or expressing regrets about failed relationships.