得到的时候在毁失去的时候在悔
        
            [dé dào de shí hòu zài huĭ shī qù de shí hòu zài huĭ]
        
        
            'Destroying while acquiring, regretting once losing.' This net name indicates a paradox that one destroys what he/she obtains, then realizes regret upon its loss. Perhaps reflecting on impulsive or rash behaviors or expressing regrets about failed relationships.