得到的时候我在毁失去的时候我在悔
[dé dào de shí hòu wŏ zài huĭ shī qù de shí hòu wŏ zài huĭ]
This name expresses a sense of remorse and regret. The user implies that when they possess something or someone, they tend to cause destruction; once it's lost, all they can do is regret.