得到的时候你在毁失去的时候你在毁
[dé dào de shí hòu nĭ zài huĭ shī qù de shí hòu nĭ zài huĭ]
A literal translation would be 'When gained, you destroy; when lost, you destroy'. This implies that both getting and losing someone brings destruction, symbolizing an overall negative or destructive impact in a relationship.