擦干眼泪说没关系流着眼泪说有关系
[cā gān yăn lèi shuō méi guān xì liú zhe yăn lèi shuō yŏu guān xì]
Conveys resilience and inner conflict: wiping away tears to maintain composure by saying 'it’s fine' while deep down acknowledging that the issue is important and does matter, hence shedding tears.