不拽怎能服众不狠怎能站稳
[bù zhuài zĕn néng fú zhòng bù hĕn zĕn néng zhàn wĕn]
'If I'm not aloof how can I be recognized? If I'm not ruthless how can I stand firm?' This conveys a strong belief that a tough exterior and assertive behavior are necessary to gain respect or establish one's position.