不要等她
[bù yào dĕng tā]
This phrase could carry several connotations. Directly translated it means 'don't wait for her.' May imply letting go of someone unreliable, acknowledging someone's absence without expecting return, recognizing when persistence in anticipation may no longer be healthy or advisable, encouraging to focus elsewhere rather than clinging onto someone who hasn’t shown up, potentially reflecting experiences of disappointment or advice against lingering futile hope.