不闻不问不爱不痛
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'不闻不问不爱不痛' means 'not listen, not ask, not love, not hurt', which represents choosing detachment from external affairs and even interpersonal relationships as self-protection from possible emotional trauma. It conveys living according to one’s own rhythm without interference from surrounding influences. The name shows the speaker's intention of living autonomously without getting involved emotionally with anything that would lead to pain.