不贱怎会有人爱不拽怎会有人服
[bù jiàn zĕn huì yŏu rén ài bù zhuài zĕn huì yŏu rén fú]
'Without being lowly, how can someone love me? Without being overbearing, how can someone look up to me?' This is a rather ironic and critical statement on societal standards or expectations within some personal relationships. It conveys frustration or dissatisfaction towards superficial conditions for acceptance or respect.