别在我坟前哭弄脏我轮回
[bié zài wŏ fén qián kū nòng zàng wŏ lún huí]
Carries dark, poetic overtones. It appeals not to cry before one’s tomb as it will dirty the reincarnation. A somewhat morbid perspective implying a wish for purity even posthumously, urging loved ones to move on.