别用别人的嘴来了解我
        
            [bié yòng bié rén de zuĭ lái le jiĕ wŏ]
        
        
            Translating to ‘Do not use other people's words to understand me’, conveying a desire to speak for oneself and avoid misinterpretation through second-hand information, stressing direct personal interaction or honesty in relationships.