别说我变了直说你厌了
        
            [bié shuō wŏ biàn le zhí shuō nĭ yàn le]
        
        
            Expressing a hurtful accusation - rather than say I've changed, just admit you're tired of me. This conveys a feeling of dissatisfaction with oneself and hints at unreciprocated feelings from the other side.