彼岸花开谁懂谁的等待
[bĭ àn huā kāi shéi dŏng shéi de dĕng dài]
In Chinese culture, 彼岸花 (higanbana or red spider lily) blooming signifies separation and waiting. The user name implies deep, unreciprocated feelings where someone has been left waiting for something they were uncertain would come.