爱与被爱是自己选择的
[ài yŭ bèi ài shì zì jĭ xuăn zé de]
'AiYuBeiAiShiZiJiXuanZeDe' translates as 'To Love And To Be Loved Is A Choice We Make Ourselves'. This indicates a mature stance on love - understanding love, both giving and receiving, is not something you fall into helplessly. Instead, it reflects the belief that love results from intentional choices and actions.