爱你纯属糟蹋自己
[ài nĭ chún shŭ zāo tà zì jĭ]
'Loving you merely ruins me.' It conveys a painful experience or relationship where caring for a specific person brings nothing but suffering and destruction, affecting one’s life negatively. One can interpret this nickname as regret for loving the wrong person and lamenting one’s poor choices in love and partners.