作茧自缚怨谁
[zuò jiăn zì fù yuàn shéi]
'Trapped by your own actions, who do you blame?' is a saying which means if one causes trouble for oneself, there’s no one else to blame. It signifies reflecting on the impact of one’s actions or decisions leading directly to a current problematic situation and taking personal responsibility without blaming external factors for difficulties one is experiencing.