做不了她的王做得了她的人做不了他的妃做得了他的人
[zuò bù le tā de wáng zuò dé le tā de rén zuò bù le tā de fēi zuò dé le tā de rén]
It refers to being unable to be someone’s lover but willing to just be their companion or friend. The phrase reflects self-comfort while facing unattainable relationships.