最痛不如怀念怀念不如最痛
        
            [zuì tòng bù rú huái niàn huái niàn bù rú zuì tòng]
        
        
            Nothing hurts as much as memories and nothing brings back painful memories more sharply than this pain. A bittersweet phrase conveying deep sorrow, implying that sometimes remembering is more painful than actually experiencing it.