在恨你死了我会烧香
[zài hèn nĭ sĭ le wŏ huì shāo xiāng]
'If you die out of hatred for me, I will burn incense.' A very intense expression about feeling remorse after being the cause of someone’s misery to the point they might metaphorically 'die of hate.' Burning incense in traditional cultures signifies remembrance or paying respects to the deceased.