用气质霸占你的心用魅力拐骗你的爱
[yòng qì zhì bà zhàn nĭ de xīn yòng mèi lì guăi piàn nĭ de ài]
A more poetic way of saying ‘to win one’s heart’. Specifically referring to the use of gracefulness (charisma or personality traits) and attractiveness ('appealing outward appearances') that can capture another's affection completely almost deceitfully.