因为爱了所以没办法不恨
[yīn wéi ài le suŏ yĭ méi bàn fă bù hèn]
'Yin Wei Ai Le Suo Yi Mei Ban Fa Bu Hen' translates as because of loving deeply, one can't help but harbor some resentment too. The saying acknowledges that intense love can breed equally intense hate due to unmet expectations or disappointments that follow from having invested heavily emotionally.