一切都是自己的自作多情
[yī qiè dōu shì zì jĭ de zì zuò duō qíng]
Literally, 'everything is my own self-indulgence'. Here, this phrase conveys a somewhat melancholic or regretful tone. The person may feel that his or her previous actions, efforts, love, or passion have not been acknowledged or received properly. It also reflects introspection - recognizing how personal biases can cloud judgment leading sometimes to overly emotional responses where others don't share or reciprocate them.