一吼二怒三领悟一哭二闹三上吊
[yī hŏu èr nù sān lĭng wù yī kū èr nào sān shàng diào]
This refers to exaggerated steps of expressing dissatisfaction, going from angry outbursts to despair (symbolized by 'hanging'), which highlights intense emotional struggles and reactions over some matter of disappointment.