小伙莫悲痛姑娘莫强求
[xiăo huŏ mò bēi tòng gū niáng mò qiáng qiú]
A gentle advice to young people: 'Do not be sorrowful (boy); do not force things (girl)', urging mutual understanding and acceptance instead of despair or undue pressure, reflecting mature wisdom given to younger counterparts in romantic or difficult moments.