小吵小闹才可靠不打不闹没人要
[xiăo chăo xiăo nào cái kĕ kào bù dă bù nào méi rén yào]
'A little quarreling makes relationships strong; total silence means neglect' expresses a viewpoint that small disagreements in a relationship are healthy signs because they can enhance intimacy by solving problems together. On the contrary, a complete lack of conflict may hint that the partner doesn't care enough to have conflicts over important issues.