想毁我人先毁我心
[xiăng huĭ wŏ rén xiān huĭ wŏ xīn]
Translates to 'Destroy me first by crushing my heart', indicating deep emotional hurt or damage. This conveys the belief that one can only truly harm another by inflicting emotional trauma; essentially saying before someone’s external aspects can be broken down, their mental strength or heart needs to be weakened first.