想不通就不想得不到就不要
[xiăng bù tōng jiù bù xiăng dé bù dào jiù bù yào]
Means, 'if I can't understand it, then I won't bother, if I can't have it, then I don't need it.' Reflects a mindset of avoiding frustration by not dwelling on or pursuing the inexplicable or unattainable; accepting limitations gracefully.