嫌弃别人的时候想想自己
[xián qì bié rén de shí hòu xiăng xiăng zì jĭ]
When you criticize others, think about yourself first'. This saying carries a moral message advocating self-reflection instead of just pointing fingers at others, emphasizing the importance of introspection and empathy towards oneself before judging another, encouraging humility over criticism.