无话找话的是我有话不说
[wú huà zhăo huà de shì wŏ yŏu huà bù shuō]
'无话找话的是我有话不说' means 'I make small talk when I have important things unsaid'. It describes a situation where someone avoids expressing what truly matters, choosing instead to fill time and silence with less meaningful conversation. It portrays inner conflict between the urge to disclose and self-imposed restraint.