无法拥有不如不要无法拒绝不如离开
[wú fă yōng yŏu bù rú bù yào wú fă jù jué bù rú lí kāi]
A rather lengthy name that conveys the sentiment that if something cannot be obtained it's better not to want it; if it can’t be refused, then it’s best to leave. It reflects a sense of resigned detachment or emotional withdrawal.