我走了你好吗你走了我不好
        
            [wŏ zŏu le nĭ hăo ma nĭ zŏu le wŏ bù hăo]
        
        
            'If I leave, will you be okay? If you leave, I won't be okay' This nickname captures a person's deep emotional dependence on their loved one and expresses mutual concern as well as the insecurity one might experience due to separation.