我在决定放手的时候最爱你
[wŏ zài jué dìng fàng shŏu de shí hòu zuì ài nĭ]
This username translates to 'I love you most when I decide to let you go'. It implies a poignant moment when the speaker realizes that letting someone go is an expression of true love. The sentiment comes from the understanding that keeping someone by force means losing something more precious - the genuine feeling. In Chinese culture, this reflects on sacrificing for love rather than possessing.