我爷们说他爱我我娘们说她想我
[wŏ yé men shuō tā ài wŏ wŏ niáng men shuō tā xiăng wŏ]
The term reflects a relationship where 'I' am told of love and longing from significant figures in one's life - perhaps translated as 'My guy says he loves me, my girl says she misses me.' It suggests a bittersweet feeling of affection and distance.