我姓温却给不了他温暖
[wŏ xìng wēn què jĭ bù le tā wēn nuăn]
I bear the surname Wen but cannot give him warmth. Here 'Wen', meaning 'gentle' or 'warm', reflects the paradox within: although symbolizing gentleness or warmth, for some reason the person finds it difficult to convey this quality to someone else, possibly because they have not been treated kindly themselves.