我妈嫌我没出息我爸嫌我不淑女
[wŏ mā xián wŏ méi chū xī wŏ bà xián wŏ bù shū nǚ]
'My mom thinks I'm no good, my dad thinks I'm not ladylike.' Expressing dissatisfaction from parents due to perceived shortcomings—one's ability or conduct does not meet parental expectations, especially focusing on the social standards imposed on women