我骄傲自大不及她温柔善良
[wŏ jiāo ào zì dà bù jí tā wēn róu shàn liáng]
The meaning here is 'my arrogance cannot match her kindness'. This reflects a contrast between the speaker’s self-perceived negative traits (pride and arrogance) against another person's positive attributes (kindness and gentleness).